26.2 Miles

As you can see, I am missing from the photos below but the reason is simple. By the time the camera got to me, I had whizzed by and was leading the race--to the next viewing zone! If you're new around here, the first picture is of my brother Matthew and the second is his wife Christy.

I had such inspiration this past weekend watching both of my brothers & sister-in-law glide through the 2009 White Rock

Marathon here in Dallas!

The determination of everyone was something that you really want to latch on to.

We saw smiles, cries, senior citizens, young kids & even missing limbs!

It was inspiring to watch all the thousands of people--many of them first timers--take a shot at such an intense undertaking. My youngest brother Ryan finished a beautiful half-marathon (13.1 miles) then another 5 with a blown out knee, just to give the others a fierce competitive edge. :) Everyone exceeded their own expectations and that is all that really matters.

In the event something is not your thing--like running a marathon--take note: say you have a "butt thing". I was at the gym walking up stairs when I noticed a youth challenged lady behind me.

Rather than having her wait on me, I told her to go ahead.

She passed without hesitancy (as if to say I should have offered sooner) then with a loving tone said "I'm going slow because I have a butt thing, what's your thing?" I couldn't even get my "thing" out as I was laughing so hard!

Here's to setting goals and making new ones!

Love,

Jen

Life Without Limbs

All I can say is, wow! Yesterday I was able to attend Nick Vujicic's event mentioned in the blog post below not once, but twice! My plan was to go once with family & friends but then thought that a special young friend of mine & P.L.A.Y. Foundation family member, Ryanne (missing both legs & parts of her hands), was attending with Scottish Rite & they had scheduled an amazing private meeting with Nick.

So, as I wasn't going to miss that opportunity, I came back and was able to listen for an hour of questions with him privately. Kids have the best way of just "getting it out there" and Nick answered every question with such wisdom and grace. They were so intrigued by how he was able to swim.

Since Nick was born without arms or legs (with no medical explanation) he was able to really enlighten the kids in the audience about self-esteem and self-empowerment. My husband and I got so much out of this experience. And Matthew H. couldn't have been more intrigued. He was smiling, laughing and was engaged with such heartfelt sincerity. It was a beautiful opportunity!

He has been all over the world speaking and touching lives of over 3 million people. What a powerful display of human courage! Apparently, Oprah is going to have him on one of her last shows in October. Saving the best for last, it couldn't be any more appropriate!

As an adult with some of his same obstacles he truly projects the concept of acceptance, of world community, of human potential. The crowd was cheering & clapping the entire time. Moments like these truly remind us how bright the human spirit is.

Icing on the cake: I was looking on his website and right on the front he has linked my website to his. I was so shocked and felt really touched as we had never met before yesterday!

Please visit Life Without Limbs and surf around. Be prepared to be inspired! Know yourself, accept yourself and let everything else be secondary. As Nick said, "You may have a mansion, money or fame, but if it's built on sand, who cares? It won't last anyway."

Love,
Jen

Aussie Inspiration

The holidays and memorable moments to create are upon us. Especially during this time of the year, anything we can do to expose ourselves to a new perspective or experience should always be considered.

If you are in the Dallas area this Sunday, December 6th, think about attending a speaking event featuring Nick Vujicic.

Nick, an Australian native, was born without arms or legs and given no medical reason for this condition. Faced with countless challenges and obstacles, a spirit bigger than himself has given him the strength to surmount what others might call impossible.

Nick has an unquenchable passion to share this same hope with others. He will be at Watermark Church at 9 a.m., 11 a.m. and 5:30 p.m. to share his amazing story of faith and hope. I'm sure you won't regret it!

Love,
Jen

Thankful

As I look at these pictures I realize how thankful I am for all the love, inspiration, friendship & support that surrounds my family.

The first picture: my mom, grandmother, aunt, cousin & the Frentz family (best in-laws you could ask for) supporting each other from our losses at the Hard Rock Casino last weekend. A few, however, came home with some loot. Even without hands, I was determined to play. Play, I did. Win, I did not. :(

Check out the next photo. This is pure inspiration. Her name is Jamie and she lost both legs and hands just a few months ago to meningitis. Yes, she is standing and walking now. I have been blessed to get to know her & her family over this past year. Jamie spoke to school kids in Dallas recently and I was there to see her in action. We are both standing and able to understand the obstacles. I'm really touched by her bravery and friendship.

We are never fully who we are without the love support of our family. I had this photo of my husband Nick & my grandmother from a special moment at home. My entire family has given so much love & support.

I love you all and looking forward to seeing everyone this week. I'm thankful for my losses as it's giving me so many gains. Have a great Thanksgiving and remember to reflect on all that you are thankful for!

Love,
Jen

"700 Sundays"

One of my favorite pastimes is to be in the company of live entertainment and be a part of a living story. Last night we were able to get "last, last minute" tickets to see "700 Sundays" with Billy Crystal in a beautiful new venue in Dallas, the Winspear Opera House.

Not only was the venue filled with charm and stories itself, the stage completely lit up with life when Billy Crystal entered stage left. If you are not aware, "700 Sundays" is the story of Billy's life. With his dad working two jobs to keep the family going, the story immediately captures the essence of the middle-class American experience.

Sundays were saved for family times. His father passed away and left his family to begin his spiritual journey when Billy was only 15. Although time seemed limited, the play brilliantly reflects on their most priceless 700 Sundays together.

The story is beyond funny, fascinating and warm all at the same time. He took so many family member characteristics and developed them into such a captivating picture book with his words and genius ability to engage the audience with is acting. And what's more, he of course had the classic American home movies to share.

We all have a family tree, funny stories, teachable moments and the emotional "stuff". And every bit of it is invaluable to our experience as people. Without it we are unable to love and grow spiritually. Art like this truly sparks curiosity into our own story.

I've come to appreciate how every day marks a new untraveled path. Simply writing and reflecting on your own experiences can open a book you never knew was so rich with life. Our individual stories don't have to be billed on Broadway to treasure them. But if you have a chance to see the production, you won't be disappointed! :)

Love,
Jen

About Uncomfortable

So, I mentioned several posts back that I have been accepted into a leadership/self development program. I'm really enjoying it and finding the development process something I needed a long time ago. The learning is in regards to communicating, personalities (good & bad) and how negotiating the art of feedback vs. advice enhances relationships. We have a choice when we get feedback -- take it and learn or choose to dismiss it because we got hurt.

But, out of all the cool things we did today and will do tomorrow, it only took 10 minutes to get "real" and "raw". Picture this, a room full of 22 women and we had to pick 2 or 3 and share with them why we admired them. Not so bad, right? Well, the task gets better.

This exercise felt like good cop bad cop. Part two was again, picking 2 or 3 women and sharing with them. But, this time we had to share why we either shy away from them or have not taken time to get to know them. Yikes! It's one thing to write your thoughts down on paper but we had to actually verbalize it.

It was really tough but so liberating if done right. There were a few tears by some but then we learned how to push through those moments and have these tough conversations. Perceptions vs. reality is so much of misunderstanding.

I really admired some of the discussions. Its not easy, but I challenge you to have just one tough conversation this week and then notice how it feels after its done. It could truly be a gift. I'm really proud of the work we did today. Not that I need this test everyday :) but, it can be done.

Love,
Jen

Laugh!

As I entered the gym this morning, I was greeted by a lovely elderly man who was holding the door for me. I noticed he was looking at me with a classic Andy Rooney squint! I thought how sweet it was that he was "looking out for me".

Then, we move to our respective cardio machines and after several minutes I look over at him and he is reading the paper as if it was printed in microscopic font!

A coin would have been difficult to slide between the paper and his nose. I am sure the Dallas Morning News felt a bit violated of personal space.

Yes, we know age can affect our site but I wondered why he wouldn't have glasses or a magnifier (I'm sure it's the same thing people wonder about me and hand prosthetics).

I watched him for a while until a very sweet lady says "honey, where are your glasses?" He just looked at her and said, "Who are you? I can't see you." Ha!. The sweet lady was his wife! I enjoyed watching the caring and playfulness of this couple.

Differences can be a connection that can enhance your relationships. Embrace and find the funny! I'm thinking his looking at me was trying to see whether or not his eyes were playing tricks on him. Hands, no hands?

Have a great day!
Jen

Not Taking Ourselves Too Seriously

First, happy Friday and Halloween Eve! What a week I have had. We finally have sun today in Dallas with no rain. One more day of this and I was about to buy a wetsuit. :)

I attended a luncheon this week that has been on my mind everyday since.

I met and embraced several women whose stories made me think how life really is a story in the making.

We are all developing our own book everyday. We just don't realize it. Or, if we do, it becomes a fleeting thought.

I was so touched by talking with these amazing people that I have found myself reflecting and understanding how much letting go of any anger, hurt, resentment, etc. just opens up your heart and mind. It is so healthy and why do we need to hold on to the negative, really?

Also, I was amazed at how freely these women were able to discuss their obstacles or challenges. I was intrigued by that because I'm in the process of developing this for myself. Being "free" to trust and share is a life thing but I'm truly enjoying the learning process.

So, as a small side note in my week, I am looking for a pair of shoes. People ask me all the time if there is anything I miss. YES! High-heel shoes! There is something about the heel that just brings confidence and style. Now, it is a bit of a balancing debacle and scavenger hunt. Can anyone make a really cool flat that looks like a high-heel style?

Oh well if the search goes on! It's all about enjoying the moment and letting go. But, if you come across some, let me know! Also, the picture I posted was taken by my great friend Soulyavanh that now lives in Portland, Oregon. You can check out her photography website here. :)

Love,
Jen

Soda Pop

Thirsty for a Diet Coke or an adult bevy perhaps? If it's in a can and your lacking a few tools, like me, don't despair!

Put your desired can up against something that won't move like a wall, kitchen appliance, etc.

Then, with a spoon or the end of a knife, slide the thinnest part of your utensil under the flip top and push down on the utensil. By pushing down, the flip top will start to come up without using a finger.

But, the can will probably move on you so if you are pushing towards a wall it will stabilize the can for you. Just keep trying until it pops open and you hear that great pouring sound!

I'm still working on my wine opening but as soon as I perfect it, you'll be the first to know.

Burp,
Jen

Run Tellman Run

I posted a while back on a cool story to aid homeless kids! This is the latest and I think it's still a cool story. Since September 9th, the movement has logged 405 miles!

The man: Tellman (guy in photo with no shoes) left his shoes in New York City and has dedicated himself to running cross country barefoot to raise $100,000,000.00 to aid homeless youth in a project called RunTellmanRun.

He is currently approaching Pittsburgh on Route 130, averaging about 20 miles per day, and plans to run through downtown Pittsburgh on Tuesday. Pittsburgh Steelers’ Brett Keisel (along with his wife) are going to meet Tellman tomorrow when they share lunch with residents of The Hub, a homeless relief program of Three Rivers Youth located in the Strip district.

Also, remember the guys who wrote Same Kind of Different as Me (homeless guy Denver Moore & art dealer Ron Hall)? Well, they have a new book called What Difference Do It Make. Check it out!

Love,
Jen

My Feet Get Some Camera Time

So let me introduce you to my little piggy's! They are always reliable, never let me feel broken glass (I might have dropped a glass or two, or..) and BEST of all......
if they get stepped on I will never lose my smile. I have to feel it first, right :)

Way To Go Sarah & ESPN

(Taken from Runners Web) GUILFORD, Conn. -- Sarah Reinertsen, author of the recently released memoir IN A SINGLE BOUND, lands on magazine covers nationwide this week on one of six different covers for the controversial first-ever "Body Issue" of ESPN THE MAGAZINE (pictured).

A triathlete who holds the world record for the marathon for above-knee amputee women and was the first female leg-amputee to complete the Ironman World Championship in Kona, Hawaii, Reinertsen is one of 80 athletes to be featured in various states of undress for the magazine, and one of six chosen for the multiple covers.

USA Today sports writer Reid Cherner posted the cover image on his blog "Game On!", and states, "the cover on Sarah Reinertsen...will probably be one of the most talked about."

Sarah Reinertsen was born with proximal femoral focal deficiency, a congenital defect that left her without enough tissue to stimulate growth in her left leg. As a child, she was repeatedly fitted for leg braces--often unpaid for by insurance companies--until the age of seven, when her doctors decided it would be best to amputate her leg. IN A SINGLE BOUND is the story of how a feisty little girl from Long Island became one of the world's most famous disabled sports figures.

In a statement from Kona, Hawaii, where she is promoting IN A SINGLE BOUND at the Hawaii Ironman Competition , Reinertsen expressed her emotions on this evocative and ground-breaking cover. "It feels like the next step forward for me," she said. "After emotionally exposing myself in the book, now I can let the world see my body as well. I've struggled with body image issues my entire life. Now, to be included in the ranks of great athletes like Serena Williams, Dwight Howard and Adrian Peterson...I'm thrilled."

Reinertsen appeared in 2006 as a participant in CBS's reality television show The Amazing Race 10. She has competed in triathlons, marathons, and bicycle races throughout America, and has given motivational speeches worldwide. Sarah has appeared on Good Morning America, Nightline, and The Early Show. She lives in Orange County, California!

Peace,
Jen

Its All About The Neighborhood & Beyond

I'm celebrating 3 years with my hubby tonight! What a fast three years it has been. We love good food and celebrated with our tummies! But, not only did we celebrate, we had such an awesome experience I had to share.

So, we enter this great new place with the objection of a one good wine & beer then on to the next place for dinner. But, as we started salivating over the menu, my suggestion was to have an appetizer then dinner at location 2 (undisclosed to me by the way -- all top secret surprise).

The waiter brings out an awesome appetizer dish! But, wait, the fork I was given was so large, it didn't fit into my eating utensil. No problem, Plan B is always to ask for a plastic fork. as they always fit Guess what....they are the only place in town who doesn't carry them (even for carry-out). Our truly amazing waiter says, "hang on". A few minutes later I was treated to a plastic fork that was made for my utensil. The real story??? We found out, without effort, he left the restaurant (his place of work), ran to a nearby 7-11, to make my situation easy. Talk about going over & beyond to make someone feel right at home. Super cool.

As we left we talked about how cool our experience was and how we planned to write the establishment and waiter a note. But then, location 2 happened. We ordered more food, as you do, and I was asked by our new waiter if I needed chopsticks. Of course I'm laughing on the inside thinking of how this moment could be the next Top Chef "challenge", when he noticed my hands.

He looked down at my hands and tried really hard to act like he never asked me that. He moved quickly away and tried to find words. I just said "Oh, thanks for asking, but I have my own version". We just smiled and went on. As the night progressed I realized we had such good people taking care of us & I started thinking of how he felt. When things like this happen, I truly feel bad for them not me. I have found so many ways of getting through it but for many others, it's their first time. He noticed my eating gadget after a while & commented on how cool it was. Also his way of acknowledging the moment without bringing it back up. I understood.

It's this idea of being patient with people & realizing the intentions are usually good. So, patience, understanding & laughter can make every night a good night.

See the strength in emotional vulnerability!!! I'm looking forward to going back.

Love,
Jen

The New Cruiser

We had an awesome opportunity arise on Saturday. Nick and I were given tickets to see the Texas Rangers 7th row back from home plate.

We had two extra and decided to see if my aunt Rae Jean and uncle Dave were up for going with and they couldn't decline with the weather being so clear and cool.

We could touch the dug out as well as see every minor detail going on out in the field. It is interesting how much more you enjoy a baseball game with the seat perspective you have. It was so cute to watch the kids trying to get the attention of players and hope for a foul ball.

There is a minor issue with the cramped leg room and prosthetics, but staying the whole 9 innings is worth it when you are so close to the drama of the umpire. Directly in front of me were two guys who thought they were way to cool to sit directly next to each other.

So, they created a "we are cool" gap and sat with one chair between them. Ah, so great for me. I stretched my legs out on top of the chair like a baseball junkie relaxed with my drink and watched every detail of the game. The "cool gap" made my night. Thanks guys.

New way to travel: bicycle cruiser. I finally got a new bicycle today and can't wait to break it in. I'll be riding myself silly I'm sure. I'm looking forward to be rolling around Dallas!

Love,
Jen

Poker Faced, Jordan Thomas

My purse collects so much stuff I could have a weekly yard sale at times. I was cleaning everything out when a stack of business cards dumped all over the floor. Yikes.

Tough gig without fingers. I sat and thought. Then all of a sudden a light bulb flickers. I used a card and put it between my palms and slid it underneath one on the floor and pushed it up against my foot until it flipped up.

I then could just grab the elevated portion that had popped up, repeat a couple dozen times and the problem was solved.

I felt like I was on candid camera and began to laugh at myself. By the way, why does it always seem awkward to laugh hysterically when you are the only person in the room?

Meet Jordan Thomas and his foundation or on CNN. Being in my situation, I'm following our healthcare reform from a much different perspective than most individuals and I am humbled to have the challenge. Jordan is taking the cost of prosthetic care to Washington and I think it is just another example of what a courageous spirit is capable of.

He has been active in Washington advocatinig for private insurance companies to cover prosthetics without caps or unfair restrictions. He lost his legs in an unfortunate boating accident in 2005 but has gone on to assist young people with gaining access to prosthetics. I am inspired for his efforts and hope others will get behind his passion.

I challenge you to become involved, passionate and motivated by something that is important to you. One gesture can make a difference.

Love,
Jen

The Best Kid In Town

OOPS - did I do something? I dropped my ears and looked up at Jen, thinking she wouldn't notice.

Hi, I'm, SKY, Jen's service dog. I can do all kinds of tricks, even surf (check out my cool pic). But, I also do tricks I don't mean to.

When I get excited my tail goes crazy. I wave it so fast that people can catch some wind. So, I was very close to our chess set with all pieces in place and my tail started going. Next thing I know, the chess game is on the floor. Not the entire game but there would have been many moves unable to be made.

As a service dog, I'm trained to strategize. So I'm thinking I have one of two options, leave it and act as if nothing happened OR wait for Jen or Nick to give me "the look". Before I could even sit down to contemplate any longer, I decided to be a really cool dog and do the right thing.

I started picking up the pieces and then got "the look". How cool do you think I felt? put Jen & Nick in a state of shock (or euphoria, one of the 2). The only thing I needed help with was where these unsual pieces should go. Jen helped me with that and we got the whole thing cleaned up.

I have to say I felt like I deserved, and still deserve, a steak. FYI for anyone else that has a dog, the pieces don't taste all that great. I spit them out pretty quickly which, I'm pretty sure, pleased Jen!!

I'm going to go check on that steak now!
Peace,
~SkY

Gaining Insight

I just realized that 201 times a thought, comment or event has made it's way onto this blog. Good, bad, happy, sad or funny...it's been noted. My last post was number 200 - That's a lot of thinking.

There are so many thoughts that go go through my head before I actually start typing that if I wrote everything I experience I could have a post 3x a day. I can have so many notes for my blog but somehow my days take on a life of their own. I'm not sure how that happens but I'm loving it!

Last week, as I was planning my next move, I received the best phone call. I have been accepted into a fantastic leadership program which starts next month. I am really looking forward to starting this and gaining new insight into myself and the others in the program. It is a year long program that provides opportunities to capitalize on unique leadership strengths and gain powerful resources. P.L.A.Y. and I can expand many things from this opportunity.

So, my thoughts changed yet again. I have had so much energy over these last few years that I realized the more I tried to get ahead and plan.....my plan would be altered. So, I establish my base and what I would like my goals to be then let life take it's course. It's amazing how you end up where you should be.

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Cross Country Run, Barefoot for Charity?“…the only way to accomplish incredible things is to set really ambitious goals…I’m doing this to challenge myself and to raise money to help struggling young people, ” said Knudson. “This cause is dear to me, so to get people’s attention I’m running barefoot.“I love this guy…Tellman Knudson.

Chances are, most of you haven’t heard of him until now, but take notice, because on September 9, Tellman is ditching his shoes as he attempts to become the first person to run across America barefoot… his 3,200+ mile journey begins in Battery Park, New York on September 9…cutie pie will then head west, running the equivalent of one marathon a day. His route follows historic Route 66 for much of the way, with stops in Cleveland, Chicago, St. Louis, Oklahoma City, Tulsa, Phoenix and finishing on the pier in Santa Monica, California.

Tellman’s goal? To raise 100 million dollars for homeless youth…he chose Battery Park as his starting point with the Statue of Liberty as the backdrop. “I wanted to include this incredible symbol of liberty, support and acceptance. It is what so many young people need, and something I hope I can give them through my efforts,” said Knudson.It’s easy to see why Richard Branson is supporting Tellman and his run for charity. Tellman is an entrepreneur who has had great success in internet marketing…he is CEO of OvercomeEverything, ListBuildingClub and several others…but, perhaps giving us a glimpse of this man perseverance is the fact that he overcame femoral antiversion, a debilitating leg condition, to compete on his high school cross country running team, setting several school records and competing for the New Hampshire state championship? I have no doubt Tellman is gonna make it cross country just fine.Please visit his website for more info. Run Tellman Run! The worlds watching…

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Flashback!!

I went to the hospital today to visit a patient whom my surgeon has had to amputate and found it such a rewarding experience.

I met with a wonderful family as well as a few of my nurses and physical therapist. It was so cool to visit and catch up. I have to say that staying in touch with everyone that made such an enormous impact on my life, medically, has truly made a difference in my recovery. Going backwards, in a healthy way, and learning more of why I am here today just allows me to feel more and more calm about my experience.

I observed my surgeon walking through the halls and the people who would say "thank you" and it made me feel so blessed to be one of the lucky people who had a team that became invested in the person. So cool.

Anyway -- I was also reminded of the Slurpee's I got hooked on in the hospital :-) Ha..I had to give in and indulged in a Coke Slurpee for old times sake. Are 37 year olds' still supposed to enjoy this?

Texas Govenor signs new bill for my friend, Jamie Schanbaum

I just realized how busy this dress of mine has been - ha! Oh well, all for a good cause :-) I was visiting Jamie in her Austin rehab.

At the Texas Capitol last week my 20 year old friend, Jamie, who lost her legs and part of her hands to meningitis this past year had something big to celebrate.

Gov. Rick Perry signed the Jamie Schanbaum bill mandating the meningitis vaccine for some college students. (Under the new law, students can opt out of the vaccine for personal, religious or medical reasons.)

Starting next year all college freshman and transfer students who live on-campus must get the vaccine. Jamie is a former UT student and wants to make sure this doesn't happen to others.

Watch the story and signing here:

http://weareaustin.com/content/fulltext/?cid=24921

CONGRATS Jamie!!! Way to Go.

Expect the Unexpected, Pt. II

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A few days in 60 degree weather, a great trainer, lakes, mountains, pilates and a little of the unexpected


can do so much for our outlook.







Before the weekend even began, our clan of 8, met the most wonderful little package. We were waiting on a rental car when the voice of a young boy came bursting out. At that moment, we looked over and were introduced to the young Harvey Parry from London.

He had lost both legs and part of his hand from meningitis septicemia. What a fun time we had with him! He had his running legs on so guess who got to chase him - ha! He and I ran in circles until he went sideways. It was so neat to meet him and his family. You can read more about him at http://www.harveyparry-appealfund.com/pages/Harvey.htm. He has been on quite the media circuit for such a young chap :)

Then, it was on to a fun time with friends and beautiful scenery. We even had jokes that were actually funny and good food. Donna, my pilates trainer (ok, she does train others but I wanted to claim her this weekend, as did everyone) was chosen to perform with a few others, in front of approx. 100 people. She did an amazing job!!!!

I'm really not sure what I would do without people around me who are motivating, supporting and see me for ME, nothing else. Build your circle and allow yourself spontaneous events and unexpected friendships. We grow and understand others, ourselves, and life so much better.

Love, Jen

Expect the Unexpected

So, Nick & I were at the Paul McCartney concert last night and WOW. What a night.

I can't imagine what it must have been like to see him during the Beatles. He had 3 encores which lasted a while. It was fabulous. The great thing is he is still moving and rockin' like he is in his 20's and the audience was such a vast mix of younger people. It was truly amazing!!!

While we are there, my trainer surprises Nick & I by pulling me away for the weekend!! She is involved with a Pilates workshop in California with pretty great people & decided I needed to go. What a great friend she is :-). So, Nick & I are getting my things together at the moment and I'm headed to a plane in an hour. Talk about last minute & total spontaneous decision.

Anyway...I will be in Pilates heaven for a few days so I will catch up with you from Cali. Nick is holding down the fort, thanks babe.

Love & Peace,
Jen

Getting Comfortable

I rarely have photos taken that expose my hands. However, this weekend I experienced a whole new attitude! I had a fantastic weekend with a friend who I have not seen since in 20 years but has turned into an amazing woman and creative photographer!

She turned my view of "flawed" photos into something so special that I forgot about the flaws. She has such an eye for creativity (did I say that yet) and allowed me to smile without thinking of strategy for my hands. Before I knew it she had me laughing, flipping my head, posing, and puckering up for the camera. It was really great. She is working on them now and hopefully using the heck out of Photoshop's edit functions! :)

It is such a free feeling to let go of our inhibitions and just go for it. Thanks for a great weekend! It was such good therapy.

In looking on the internet, again, I found other flawed things in photos. Ms. Kelly Knox (above) has done an amazing thing in the modeling world and for the idea of letting go. She is British and can be found at www.kellyknox.com. As you can see, this beauty is missing part of her arm but it seems so secondary by the picture.

Also, this is a bit late but really wanted to thank all the special people who work with my mom. I was so glad to have had the opportunity to meet you all recently. You did such an amazing thing by providing her the support you gave her and your prayers have never been forgotten.

Love,
Jen

Who Is This?

I was at a neighborhood meeting tonight when the room finally got quiet and the discussion started. All of a sudden, a phone rings and I hear "who is this?" "what?" "who is this?" When I found out who the culprit was it became such an endearing sight.

The cutest, youth challenged guy, stands up in his seat and proceeds to talk as if he is the only one in the room. I then saw the hearing aid and smiled. It was probably his grandson telling him how he just won a game or his wife asking him to bring home flowers or milk. Whoever it was made this guy happy. He was trying so hard to be quite and hear the person calling and succeeded at neither. But, a smile did make it's way into his efforts.

I watched this 10 second snapshot of a precious moment and couldn't help but see this as a commercial for a movie preview. The one where a phone rings and ruins the moment for everyone. Except this one would be encouraged :-)

Love these special moments & be patient...they don't come everyday!

ACA Celebrates Progress in the Campaign for Hate Crimes Protections for People with Disabilities

ACA Celebrates Progress in the Campaign for Hate Crimes Protections for People with Disabilities

The Matthew Shepard Hate Crimes Prevention Act, also known as the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crime Prevention Act (LLEHCPA) has been added to the Department of Defense Authorization bill. While there will be several amendments offered in the Senate debate on Monday, July 20th there are no other procedural obstacles and there will not be another vote on adding the Hate Crimes Prevention Act. This all but assures that this important legislation will finally pass through Congress.

The Amputee Coalition of America (ACA) signed on in support of the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crime Prevention Act (LLEHCPA) recognizing that bias against people with disabilities takes many forms, including violence.

This bill will broaden the definition of hate crimes to include disability, sexual orientation, gender and gender identity. It will grant agencies the authority to investigate and prosecute federal crimes based on the victim’s disability, whether real or perceived, and would authorize funding to states to help with the prosecution of Hate Crimes. It also makes grants available to state and local communities to combat violent crimes committed by juveniles, train law enforcement officers or to assist in state and local investigations and prosecutions of bias-motivated crimes.

Heading to Austin

I'm going to Austin Monday morning to revisit a girl, Jamie, who I met before but she was in the hospital.

Jamie is now at home and going through out patient rehab with her new life without legs and hands.

I'm really looking forward to catching up with her and seeing her smile!

I'll keep you posted,
Jen

Serenity in Aspen

I have been really busy this month and need to tell you a few stories! Let me start by telling you how awesome it has felt, up until a few weeks ago, to be on prosthetics and NOT fallen!! It's a question I get a lot and a gold medal feeling. But, guess what. The gold medal is now a "wow" moment.

So, here we go. Nick & I are meeting friends from Australia for wine. We walk in and I decided to miss a step and kiss the floor rather than my friend. Literally, face first. Boom, just like that. Nick gets me up and I'm thinking, Damn, I haven't even had a glass of wine yet. I'm stuck with no excuse. So, I casually say....I made a grand entrance just for you. That's what friendship is :)

Next, I had an awesome several days with my mom & family. Being as though I'm a bit different I have really started to understand my parents and how truly special they are. Having a child go through my situation must be an emotional roller coaster for them (and everyone). But, the older I get and the more they are by my side, I know why they were given to me. I had a very minor issue at home with my legs and they were both so amazing and supportive. I LOVE YOU!

I'm currently experiencing 60 degree weather and AWESOME scenery in Aspen, Colorado. The picture of the rainbow was right after a hard rain. It's beautiful and so spiritual in many ways. I have walked so much and done pretty well. When I get tired I just find a place and stop. So good for the soul. Matthew has been having fun experiencing a lot of new things.

I was at a bike shop and a little boy just stopped and stared at me with such confusion on his face. His dad noticed and finally approached me with "I'm so sorry". He then pulled his son to the side to talk. It was strange but at the same time curiosity is how we discover things. I was touched by his dad. All it takes is a few words. Share them.

I'm writing this from a coffee shop watching all the locals and dogs run around. I'm writing alot and love it. You can't help but be inspired here. Walk, hike, bike, or soak it up with great food and patio.

Peace & Love,
Jen

Healthcare Reform - Please Help

Hope everyone had some good relaxing fun for the 4th. I learned to tube and drive a Jet Ski over the weekend. Balancing in the drivers seat is quite hilarious. As you can imagine, the faster I would go the less my body holds up because of the weight distribution (or lack of). Nick was sitting behind me, of course, for those "wow" moments. But, as much fun as I was having I felt a bit like a bobble head :)

After fun there is always work...

The health care system is trying to reform, as I'm sure you are aware. I tend to pay attention to this much more than I ever would for obvious reasons. One bit that I'm sure most people aren't aware of is the cost of prosthetic care. Currently, the Senate version of the reform bill does not include coverage for "assistive devices or durable medical equipment (such as prosthetics)" but the House Version does.

The goal is to make sure any health care reform bill includes this language to prevent any loopholes and people not being able to have prosthetics due to the debilitating costs. So, how can you help?

Start by calling your Representative and Senator. Let them know that the bills should include specific language for durable medical equipment (such as prosthetic devices) in all health care reform bills. This is a large factor in Independence and leading healthy lives!!

If your not sure where to start call the U.S. Capital Switchboard at 202.224.1212

Thanks for your help!!

Jen

Surfs Up!

Surfing, river walk, fun hotel, great food & many snow cones! We had a whirlwind of a weekend. We headed to Port Arkansas, Texas. We just needed a quick (or semi-quick) getaway with beaches and good food.

Our mission was accomplished by staying in San Antonio on the river walk then traveling further south the next morning. I was so excited to be in water!



We were in 105 degree heat the entire time so catching a few waves was definitely on the agenda. Sky even became a surfer dude for a bit. We just couldn't find board shorts his size.

So, how do I surf? Well, as you can see in these pictures, I hold on tight and just go with the waves. It is more like a really advanced doggy paddle but it still gets me from A to B with a few bumps in between.

I only flipped a few times. Albeit, sucking all the salt out of the water each time, but the waves never got away from me. As much as they tried to avoid me, I was right there waiting to bust right through the break. It was a lot of fun.



Matthew did really well and Sky was so much fun. I think he was feeling like the king of the sandpit. We are off to Arkansas to Beaver Lake for Independence Day for wake boarding, skiing, seadooing, grilling, fireworks, cocktails, and more sun!

Have a great holiday everyone,
Jen

CBS Interview

I was really fortunate to be asked by Karen Borta with CBS local news to share my story and share the story of P.L.A.Y which aired June 23rd. I had a great time with Karen. What a gracious and genuine person.

Today was a blessing on many fronts and I'm thrilled to be helping others. To my surprise, I found out this was going to air AGAIN, tonight, on the sister station TXA 21.

You make it all worth it. Thanks everyone!
http://cbs11tv.com/video/?cid=7, search North Texan Starts Charity to Help Young Amputees.

Keep looking ahead!

Love,
Jen

Ryanne Going to Nationals

We got the results from the Endeavor Games and Ryanne qualified for nationals in four events! The 60m, the javelin, the softball throw and the shot put. The P.L.A.Y. Foundation is so humbled to sponsor her.

She just missed qualifying in the 400m. She got 3.46 and the qualifying time of 3.30. She was a little disappointed until she realized that the kiddos competing in the 400m are a year older than she is. Keep up the good work!

P.L.A.Y. Foundation Sponsors Ryanne

If you think your having a bad day, let this precious gem
put a smile on your face! P.L.A.Y. Foundation sent 6 year old Ryanne (adopted from Kazakhstan), to OKC this past weekend to participate in the Endeavor Games!

She is such an inspiration. On her way back from the games, she called to let me know that she had received 4 GOLD medals. I can't tell you how excited I was for her. She was so proud of herself which makes it all worth everything that goes into P.L.A.Y. Foundation. Congratulationss Ryanne!

Love,
Jen

Birthday Celebration & A Little Help from my Friends

Hi Everyone!! I'm a year older and feel younger since I last posted. In a time long, long ago during the month of June.....One of my brothers, Matt, and I were both born 3 days apart (and a few years). We celebrated our events together this weekend.

Since age is just a number and has nothing to do with state of mind....we chose to celebrate the coolness of the 70's :-). We had a blast on Sat night going back in time! This first pic was Nick and I pre-party, then Matt & I "in the moment". I had no idea how clothing can change people. The family & friends that usually dance on the inside were not only dancing on the outside, a few tables got some action too.

My sister-in-law, hubby & family put in a lot of work this past weekend and it makes it so special! Everyone made the evening so much fun. Thank you for everything! The only thing I hate is that my dancin' skills are a bit revised now that I have Fred & Ginger. I think I was meant to just shake my hips anyway :)

LITTLE HELP FROM FRIENDS: So, I was at the store this morning and as I was checking out, the lady behind me says "Honey, can I help tuck in your tag?" Apparently, I had a fashion glitch and was walking around with my shirt tag sticking out. I, of course, jumped on it and said yes then preceded to tell her that I appreciated it. The funny part was that I was somewhat struggling with my grocery bag but all she noticed was my tag....I guess it's all about priorities, right. At least I looked good while struggling :)

Peace,
Jen

Flying for P.L.A.Y.

A few more pictures from the helicopter ride at the fundraiser! We all had a great time and we hope for another one next year. Thank you to everyone involved and for playing hard!

Serving 4 P.L.A.Y.

What a great day on the Tennis courts! Serves should have started at 9 but due to a little rain that had a mind of its own, the courts got a bath while we watched, ate and had an auction. We even had raffle tickets for a fantastic helicopter ride. Nothing like seeing the new Cowboys Stadium from a hovering helicopter!







We finally got started playing around 11 with sun and great food. We had a lot of fun and look forward to a bigger event next year!

Taking Flight

Ever looked down, dangling from hundreds of feet by a few strings? Just in case you are curious: it is like a bad dream that becomes an exhilarating reality as soon as you pull the ripcord!

Little Matthew celebrated his 11th birthday this weekend at a race car amusement park called Speed Zone. After eating pizza, cake, playing video games and racing go-carts, we decided to have a little adult entertainment!

Across the street from the park sit some very intriguing, stomach-turning, breath-taking adult rides at Zero Gravity. My little brother decided to get away from KU for the weekend and headed south. Since Nick had been racing all afternoon he felt like Ryan should participate in the terror instead of him.

It took me a while but I talked Ryan into this stomach-
dropping ride. We were wrapped into this lovely gear and cranked up to the top of the yellow tower you can see in the photo.

Wow was it terrifying! We were tied to a ripcord and Ryan did the honors. We got to the top and both froze. It took Ryan a few delayed seconds, but all of a sudden, without warning, my stomach was no where to be found.

We dropped like a brick so fast you could barely process any thoughts. I was gripping Ryan's arm so tight and screaming pretty loudly. I'm surprised we didn't fall out because it sure felt like we were going to. It was so liberating.

We had a strategy for Fred & Ginger. What if the speed was to fast and we lost my prosthetics? Can you imagine? I really worked through the process and there was a foot pedestal that locked everything in.

Albeit, it still felt really unstable. I highly doubt the staff has ever had a quadruple amputee conquer this ride!

Never give in to your skepticism in the face of a terrifying challenge! Everyone needs a little shock like this just to remind ourselves that we only live once.

We were able to get some great footage, so we will try and get that uploaded as soon as we can. Too bad Fred & Ginger didn't detach and take flight themselves. That would have been a great news story if they ended up on the highway. :)

Love,
Jen

Climbing the Hill

This past weekend was full of celebrating and overcoming flight delays. Nick, Matthew, the family and I stomped around Kansas for my youngest brother Ryan's graduation from KU & my cousin Sarah's graduation from KSU.

We went from one campus to the next and never skipped a beat! We even got a little time on a boat at my mom's friend's lake home on Lake Quivera. It felt like Fast Times at Ridgemont High.



This picture with my dad was after I managed to walk up a rather large hill to see my brother. It was steep but I had faith in Fred & Ginger and just told myself that I had to find a way. Guess what? Side stepping worked great.

As I was side stepping up the hill and getting a funny look from my dad I just smiled and told him that I was reinventing the two-step. :) The ceremony was all outside. It was a beautiful day.



The above picture are my very proud parents with my two comedian brothers, who never pass up a picture or a laugh. The picture below is of my gorgeous cousin Sarah.



Nick, Matthew, Ryan and I were able to tour the campus and it is such a beautiful university. There were so many terrain changes for me. By the end I felt like getting a scooter and just riding.

I was, and am, a very proud sister & cousin and thank you for all your prayers in getting me to this special day!

Love,
Jen