Tuesday

SERVE for P.L.A.Y.


Reminder: Don’t miss out on this great event! Next Saturday, June 26th, we will be holding our annual fundraiser @ Walnut Creek Country Club.

The fun starts at 9AM with lots of great tennis and FANTASTIC auction items & prizes. We have Yankees & Red Sox tickets, Chef Oetting from Victory Tavern will cook in your house for 8-10 people, autographed Mavericks memorbilia, tickets to the Cowboys Tennis Classic (featuring Roddick vs. Isner, Sharapova vs. S. Williams), and much much more.

For a $25 entry fee (lunch & shirt included), sign up for a great day and support P.L.A.Y. by calling Ernie @ the Tennis Pro Shop 817-473-1311. Or, if you prefer to make a donation, go to: http://www.dallasfoundation.org/fundPage.aspx?subMenu=HowToGive.aspx&fund=31

Hope to see you there!!

The P.L.A.Y. Family

Saturday

PICKING UP THE PACCE w/ELLITE 2


I am very excited to tell you that I will now be jogging and walking much faster! This even includes a much improved gate up and down stairs. I can actually walk the stairs without looking like I am about to kiss the floor :)

The anticipation of adding to my hot leg collection has had me dreaming of all kinds of scenarios. The photo above is only the interior of my new foot but, it’s the most important part. It is called the ELITE 2 and is made for high impact and avid sports enthusiasts. Also, it is made of carbon fiber so it allows flexibility that my current foot doesn’t.

Currently, every step I take is from a very flat foot and there is absolutely no spring or “give”. Now, I feel like MJ. I can get some spring, jump, etc. while using less of my own energy. It’s fantastic.

This coming week I will be a changed women so look out and stay off the roads :)

Have a great holiday weekend!

~ Jen

Sunday

Amputee Basketball & The voice of The Mavericks




It’s amazing what you can find when you have a belief. Several weeks ago I was reading an article that really inspired me and lead me to a basketball game that EVERYONE needs to see. The story and passion will give you a very quick perspective of life.

Welcome to AMP 1 (www.amp1basketball.com). A group of single-leg amputees who all met through YouTube and came together with a passion for basketball and dedication to proving an amputee basketball team CAN be done.

Scott Odom (right pic) is the founder of AMP 1 and the one who invited me to the game! The team is from all over the country so we took advantage of them being in town & met up before the game! I was so in awe of their stories, ages (18-57), and how it all came together.

But, here is the coolest thing, it’s all done for charity. AMP 1 plays against able-bodied teams and whatever money is raised from the event goes to a charity the team has partnered with.

So, last night we drove out to Joshua, Tx. to watch AMP 1 vs. Cook’s Children’s Hospital and loved it. Not only does AMP 1 have game, their story got to the heart of Bob Ortegel (aka Voice of the Mavericks). Bob emceed the event and did a half time interview as well as gave a great talk after the game. It was such a fun event! Thanks for the inspiration guys!

This is a group of guys you don’t want to miss!!!! P.L.A.Y. is already spinning ideas. Be on the look out for an upcoming game.


Monday

GRADUATION & A LITTLE MORE SELF


Hi Everyone!

I have been attending a leadership course (The Power of Self) over this past year and finally graduated this past weekend!!

It’s amazing to think how fast it has gone but also so great to know the tools I have learned can’t be taken away. So what are some things I learned? Well, I’m definitely an Extrovert, I like challenges but apparently I really like developing & growing others. We also learned how to talk about “elephants” in the room, have difficult conversations and push ourselves to growth and new heights.

We had the opportunity to take several tests and study our brain, personality, strengths and uh, yes, the wonderful weaknesses as well. It has opened up so much understanding of how I learn and interact with others and I wish EVERYONE had this opportunity. It was truly a gift.

The good thing is that I’ve graduated. The interesting thing is this……as I said above, I’m a developer and a true believer in this program so if we cross paths soon you will probably be learning something new! Ha.

Run Away Grocery Cart


I hope all the wonderful mom's had a day of pampering! We celebrated with my mom and ate some great great food, did a few things, then ate more food. Thank you mom for making me who I am today. Love you.

So, have you ever had a grocery cart leave you when you need it most? Let me give you a picture of what this looks like.

At first, the scene feels like a typical set up at the car. The cart is nestled up closely (so you think) between your door and the next car, if there is one. In my case there was a car next to me so I felt extra good. But then, right as you get the sack/bag inside the car situated nicely, you turn to grab the next batch of goodies and your stomach drops. No cart. The cart has gone awry.

I looked up feeling as if this had to be a joke and sure enough, the only laugh was coming from the food in the cart. The foodies in the bag must have felt like they were in a roller coaster ride. I was just waiting for their little hands to go up as they rode down the hill and yelled "woohooo".

Apparently, the cart was on a slight incline and felt he needed a bit of a rush. The cart was rolling as a car was headed right for it. What is a girl on prosthetics to do?

I had about 2 seconds to act so, I walked as fast as I could (pretty funny site by the way) until I grabbed the cart and then freaked the guy out who was driving the car (which is about to hit the cart) as he notices the cart is being steered by a girl without hands!

Whew, what a shopping experience.

Until my next episode, laugh it off :)

~ Jen

Cleaning Up West Dallas



Look out kids, you may not recognize your school. We had a great time Sunday @ Edison Middle school in West Dallas.

Giving back is such a good feeling especially when its with paint. Yes, I had brush in hand and for 3 hours painted the teachers lounge yellow. There were tons of volunteers doing anything from landscaping to painting. The hallways were painted with bright red stripes and other rooms had great bright colors.

Christy & Nick were stuck on the walls when this photo was taken or else we would have taken over the bathroom for this photo!! I hope this brings cheer to everyone going from class to class.

All we needed was my 6'2" brother, Ryan, and this would have been done in 1/2 the time. He could have done a wall and ceiling at one time :)


If all else fails, or you are having a bad day, try giving back it will cure anything.

Looking forward to the next mission!

Sunday

Dallas Pilates Intensive



My body is still sore from the workout I had last Sunday! We just received the photos so thought I would share. I'm the one with the leg touching the nose :). All of the presenters/instructors are in the top photo and were so amazing. Their bodies can do things I didn't even know were possible.

Working out, no matter your situation, is always good. But, I honestly attribute part of my success to pilates. The strength in my stomach and legs helps me everyday with walking and balancing. It has also pushed my mental strength beyond words. For the times I feel as if I may not be able to do something, Donna is there to say "What? YES, you can!!".

If you don't already have it, find something that pushes you every day. We all need those positive pushes!

Love, Jen

Wednesday

It's all In the Dress

So I get home yesterday and interrupted a game of hoops between Matthew & Nick. I grabbed the ball and SCOREd, 2 x!! But, as soon as the idea came up to turn the camera on, my skills went on vacation. How does that happen? I was quite the hoopster back in the day as my amazing talent so clearly shows. I have to shoot underhanded to get it over the basket but, well.....don't laugh too hard!


Thursday

STRENGTHEN YOUR CORE

If you are looking for a challenge this weekend check out the Dallas Intensive! This weekend April 23rd through the 25th my awesome Pilates trainer—Donna—is putting on a 3 day workshop with some of the top instructors across the globe.














I will be doing a demonstration on Sunday which will be fun. It's a great group of people and great way to learn about your body—in a physically challenging way. I enjoy every minute of it. :)

Love,
Jen

Tuesday

GOING LOCAL

We attended the World Balloon Convention on Sunday! I thought I was a real geek for even wanting to go but once you saw the creations you couldn't help but be in awe.

The talent and creativity was amazing. I've attached my favorite 100% balloon biker! It has been a busy few weeks. I mentioned before that I am taking a 7 month leadership course and have learned so much.

However, I am down to my last class & graduation next month. I can't believe how fast it has gone. I wish everyone could go through this experience. All I can say is that it was such a gift and I am so grateful to have received the scholarship for the Power of Self class!

I have also been working on my writing and reflections—which hit a bit of a road block. I finally understand what the term "writer's block" means. But, there is always inspiration if you look hard enough. I was able to have lunch with a bright woman—Jennifer Strickland. She pushed me through a great discussion and opened me back up. Jennifer's story is really inspiring & I have read her book twice. Check her out here.

What else? Cooking has been quite the trend in my house lately. The art of cooking in my situation is very unique but also a great challenge. Fortunately, my husband loves to cook so it's never a chore. But, recently, my hubby found a great little trend called Urban Acres.

It works like this: every two weeks you get a fresh batch of local and organic produce, fruits, meats—basically whatever is in season. Then they provide recipes to introduce meals with the goodies. My favorite part is you can volunteer your time in the market then receive your food free. How great is that? Stay tuned.

Love,
Jen

Wednesday

THE LUKE ARM AT TEDMED

Soldiers who've lost limbs in service face a daily struggle unimaginable to most of us. At TEDMED, Dean Kamen talks about the profound people and stories that motivated his work to give parts of their lives back with his design for a remarkable prosthetic arm called the "Luke Arm". Dean also invented the Segway—what a brilliant mind!

Friday

PEN PALS FINALLY MEET

This week I was so thrilled to finally meet Merlyna Adams from Louisiana and was able to use my phone to upload video, which I will continue to do! You'll need to turn the volume up a tad to hear the demonstration well. We have been communicating since 2007 and she is doing quite remarkable. She had a prosthetic appointment at Advanced Arm Dynamics outside of Dallas and I crashed the party!

On August 13, 2007, she experienced a sharp pain in her right side which revealed a 10mm kidney stone. Over the next few days, she was transferred to several different hospitals. At the fourth hospital, she remained in ICU for nearly three weeks.


Her body developed sepsis. She suffered congestive heart failure, renal failure and pulmonary failure. Sound familiar? Like me, she lost her hands and legs, below the knee, due to the restricted blood flow to her hands and feet. We chatted about all kinds of things and shared "tips". She is walking really well and is back to being a principal in La Place, LA. Watch her video here.


Merlyna is getting the myoelectric hands so I shot a bit of video for you. What you see in the video is not the "final" product as it is not covered. She was learning fast. It usually takes a long time to work out the use of these. Go Girl.

While I was there, I learned a lot about new technology coming out and it is so exciting! In my world it's like the anticipation of the iPad or iPhone. Loved the day! Enjoy the holiday weekend.

Love,
Jen

Monday

IS IT OKAY TO ASK?

We finally had a really warm weekend in Dallas! Ever notice when something isn't quite right, as long as the sun is out (ok, maybe a cocktail in hand) it never seems as bad!

To enjoy a bit of the weather, we were at Matthew's soccer game on Saturday. Sky was basking in the sun as well, drinking tons of water, being loved on by all the kiddos and enjoying his "king of the castle" moment when one cute kid slowly approaches.

I could see it in his eyes. The game is going and he is trying to watch but then flips back to Sky, then me, then the game, then....well, you get the idea. He was trying to support his team but became very curious about Sky and then my amputated hands and had to seize the moment.

With a very polite way about him (and one final glance at the game) he says to me "Um, I'm not sure this is appropriate but, um, um..." I said, "Do you want to know what happened?" It was as if I had taken a 100 pound brick off his shoulders. He immediately relaxed and said "YES!"

After we had a quick chat I let him know how thoughtful he was by saying it may not have been appropriate but I also let him know I thought he was brave for approaching me with his curiosity. He was really a sweet kid. Then, as always, Sky seized the moment and got the focus back on him. Ha Back to the soccer game it was!

When in doubt, ask! The more we know, the more we grow.

Love,
Jen

ONLY IN MY WORLD


How harmless do these mints look? They are so small that I'm not even sure how they could turn a nice evening into....... well, let me explain.

I saw a very artistic flick tonight only to end up buying a box of, you guessed it, Junior Mints. How do I eat them? Being that the candy is so small and my fingers have been on vacation for a while, I take the whole thing very slowly.

I was doing fine until I dropped/lost/slipped from my hand one little mint. O'well, not a big deal. I have an entire box, right?

To be clear, I did look for the mint. But, it wasn't readily available to be eaten so I experienced the movie without it. So I thought.

Movie is over, we talk about it, grab my bag and we are off. I get in the light and OH MY GOSH!! I'm still laughing as I'm writing this. Chocolate was definitely the star of my dress, my belt, up & down my arms. Literally everywhere. It melted at some point during the movie. It had even found it's way onto my cell phone.

We could not stop laughing. I think we were so consumed with HOW these little tiny things attacked me without my knowledge that we found it difficult to put together a full sentence. I mean seriously, it looked as if we fought and I lost really, really bad.

I wish I could explain in some fashion how it all went down or how to connect the dots, even just a little. Unfortunately, all I got was a great story, a lot of looks and a really long laugh. Only in my world.

Hands or not, it could happen to you. For as good as they are, beware!

Cheers,
Jen

Friday

Seize The Moment!


Great Article from the LA Times. Have a great weekend.
Much Love, Jen

Los Angeles Times. Ann Wells writes:

My brother-in-law opened the bottom drawer of my sister's bureau and lifted out a tissue-wrapped package. . . . He discarded the tissue and handed me the slip. It was exquisite; silk, handmade and trimmed with a cobweb of lace. The price tag with an astronomical figure on it was still attached.

"Jan bought this the first time we went to New York, at least eight or nine years ago. She never wore it. She was saving it for a special occasion. Well, I guess this is the occasion."

He took the slip from me and put it on the bed with the other clothes we were taking to the mortician. His hands lingered on the soft material for a moment, then he slammed the drawer shut and turned to me.
"Don't ever save anything for a special occasion. Every day you are alive is a special occasion."
I remembered those words through the funeral and the days that followed when I helped him and my niece attend to all the sad chores that follow an unexpected death. . . .
I'm still thinking about his words, and they've changed my life. . . .I'm not "saving" anything; we use our good china and crystal for every special event---such as losing a pound, getting the sink unstopped, the first camellia blossom. . . .
"Someday" and "one of these days" are losing their grip on my vocabulary. If it's worth seeing or hearing or doing, I want to see and hear and do it now. . . .I'm trying very hard not to put off, hold back, or save anything that would add laughter and luster to our lives. And every morning when I open my eyes I tell myself that it is special.

Every day is that special day you've been waiting for. Seize it!


Wednesday

Changing The Face of Fashion


Welcome to Dress the Legs Campaign. Ladies, fashion is about to change! Please read and sign the petition to help the industry gain momentum for those of us that find it difficult have functional & fashionable clothing.

As a newly elected (and very excited) board member, I was in a meeting over the weekend in Kansas City with women all around the country discussing our fashion struggles. What I got excited about was the ability to have such a great discussion about the issue. We not only created an awareness around the issue, we are creating a "what can we do to change the issues" movement.

I am thrilled to have been chosen as a board member for this cause and hope to make a REAL change in this area.

We have made a few strides with Britain's Missing Top Model & Project Runway. We are bringing awareness and education to the people who can make a difference.

Wish us luck & get on the campaign to help grow our mission. Sign up now :)

Love, Jen

Friday

Best Advice from Kansas City

My day began at 4AM to an annoying alarm, a dog licking my face, and my husband sleeping soundly.

I was trying hard not to go back to bed but was inspired by the reality that I would be having breakfast with a really great friend in a few hours! The shower was finally greeted with my lack of energy, I woke up the hubby and somehow arrived on time for the departure.

I arrived in a cold Kansas City for several reasons, one of which is to catch up with friends & family. While catching up, I heard the best 3 words today.

We were sitting inside watching the rain, chatting about life and depending on others. The young voice of this beautiful 9 year old blond says "the best thing is to do it yourself." Have your own thing going.

"YES", I said. I can't wait to hear her advice at 21. Keep your ears open to things like this. Young & Wise is becoming a trend.

Enjoy the weekend & bring someone new into your life.

~ Jen

Monday

If there is a WILL there is a WAY


Last week, I had the pleasure of meeting a fantastic 3 yr. old little boy named, WILL. He had the best smile, attitude and appetite for a good high 5 (or should that be a 2.5?).

Not only did this little guy possess a spirit full of energy, he was wearing his strength on his shirt. I have thought about him for days. He is missing his legs and part of his hands due to congenital issues. But, you would never know it. He was running around the entire time.

Over these past three years, I have been blessed with opportunities that have opened up my heart to accept and understand differences in people and I'm finding how simple things really can be. We complicate things when we don't have to!

Yesterday morning I had the privilege of talking to a group of 7th grade girls and sharing thoughts on body image, popularity, etc. and I had such a great time. The earlier/younger we can open up about acceptance and embracing the differences between others, the WILL to achieve will blossom.

Find your WILL & make it your way.

Love, Jen

Wednesday

BIG DAY for the Carr's!!! Reveal Day on EHM

Family coming back from Hawaii tonight for the big REVEAL tomorrow. (Photo taken when family was leaving for Hawaii).

MINEOLA, TX (KLTV) - The Extreme Makeover team has given the details for the "Move that Bus" day Thursday. The Extreme team says everyone is welcome. In fact, they hope to have thousands of East Texans at the site. If you want to participate, here the schedule for Thursday:

8am: Shuttles start running from Wal-Mart to the Car family home. Do not try and drive to the site. You will be turned away and sent to the Wal-Mart lot.
10am: Production crews start filming big crowd shots.
Noon: The BIG REVEAL.

The Extreme team says that no one will be allowed to walk into the neighborhood or park nearby. Only people riding the shuttle buses from Wal-Mart will be allowed in.

Anyone wanting to donate a certificate for goods or services or cash to the family needs to have that donation in to Texas Bank and Trust in Tyler on Grande Road or either Longview branch by 10 a.m. on Thursday so it can be presented to the family.

Some of the public has been asking if they can tour the house. The Extreme team says no. The house will not be open to public tours. The show will air in 6-8 weeks and you can see it on TV at that time.

They advise that you should plan to be there a few hours for the production crews to get enough shots of the crowd. It's your chance to be on national TV!

Saturday

CONGRATULATIONS Carr Family & Welcome to Extreme Makeover - Home Edition


I missed my update this week but I have a wonderful excuse!!

Ryanne Carr (remember her) and her family were chosen by Extreme Makeover - Home Edition to have a new house. In the event you don't know, P.L.A.Y. was introduced to the Carr's about a year ago and helped send Ryanne to a few events where she brought home the gold!!

The great news was announced early Thursday morning. Then, all the excitement started. I jumped in my car and headed out to Mineola, Tx (outside of Tyler) to surprise the family in the ritual of the Braveheart March.

I was sooooo thrilled to be a part of this for Ryanne and her family but was even more surprised to hear over a megaphone..... "Jen Griffin".

There must be more than one, right? I get pulled out of the crowd and am told that I am going to speak to the family before they leave for Hawaii. WOW!

We march up to the house, form a circle around the family and while I am watching the faces of the family, I look up and realize, OMG, I'm standing next to TY PENNINGTON. I start thinking about how surreal everything was becoming, wondering how the family must be feeling, noticing how many cameras were around, wondering how all this works, etc, etc, etc. and all of a sudden, I had the stage with Ty and the family.

I have to tell you that on the walk up to the house I became really nervous from the idea of talking but the minute I saw the family I couldn't say enough. This is such an ENORMOUS joy and so proud to know this family.

The house was knocked down yesterday and a new amazing retreat is being created as I type this. LIVE stream click here

I will keep you updated with everything throughout this week.

NEXT: LIMB Drive tomorrow @ Scottish Rite Hospital in Dallas from 2-4. Drop off any old prosthetics that can be used to create new limbs for those in Haiti. Or, just come to support the effort.

Exciting week to come. Air date will be posted as well.

Love, Jen

Friday

Wardrobe Malfunction & The Unexpected Bond

Whew...were do I begin? Before I start...just remember this: when you get in a situation that forces you out of your comfort zone, take a deep breath, understand your going to be embarrassed (maybe) and then start laughing. :)

I am attending a wedding this weekend and, of course, needed something to wear. So, in the middle of my agenda today, I make a pit stop for clothes. I found a few items rather quickly and my pace of getting things done was on target. UNTIL....my eyes went right to a really great top. Should I, Shouldn't I, etc. (you know the mental routine).

Of course I should. My new find and I go into the dressing room to become one, well almost. The inside of the shirt had a large round sensor on it. I had a necklace on that had big round circles connected with each other. Are you starting to feel my pain? Can you tell where I'm going with this?

The top slides over my head, I put my hands in to pull it down and BOOM, I became ONE with the sensor & my necklace. The connection happened a bit below my neck. Not my lower stomach or mid stomach no, right below my neck. So, great visual, huh?

HaHa! Ok, I'm trying but can't get it apart and start to realize I had a real live "wardrobe malfunction" (At least no-one will be sued for this one). What should I do? I clearly can't walk around asking for help.

I finally heard a sales lady by my door so I sucked it up, took a deep breath, and went for it. "Uh, excuse me mam, I realize this is sooo not in your job description, but I have a little situation".
All the while talking to her with my head out but body in the dressing room.

Very politely she says "Well sure, what can I do for you"..... Right at this moment I started feeling funny because I wasn't sure exactly how to drop the bomb. Do I flash her first or explain then flash? I was in such a predicament. :)

I stepped to the side just enough that she could see the necklace & sensor and that's all it took.
She starts laughing which got me laughing which made the whole thing worth it. She fixed me up and I was on my way.

Without even trying, I'm sure I gave her a story to pass on to her grand kids and provided great party talk. I can just picture it "You have to hear what happened to this girl today".

In a weird way, it was a nice unexpected bonding experience and I am very appreciative of her willingness to help and the laugh we both got from it.

ENJOY YOUR WEEKEND & watch yourself...you might be the next victim.

Love, Jen
p.s. In case your interested....after all that, I absolutely bought the top.

Thursday

My 40 Day Challenge that You should Join

Ever have one of those days that you just don't want to do....anything. You just want to be?

Well, I have to admit Fred & Ginger (left leg & right leg) express a mood to chill from time to time. After all, they weigh 12 lbs each so if I'm tired, they are tired.
We have had talks from time to time as my heart and brain want one thing & Fred & Ginger want something else.

So, for those times I give in and let them rest, I find that I love watching the kids in the E*Trade commercials (not all the time, I do have other interests, really I do) but if I need a laugh I watch something like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yhfl4mFH1No

The messages are funny but it is also KIDS telling ADULTS how to do something the right way. Hence, listen to the little people they can really open your eyes.

Ok, so what is my challenge. For the next 40 days (starting today) I am going to omit the idea that I have an answer. I'm going to ask for advice and find a way to engage the little people of our world as part of this. In addition, I'm giving up the tendency to have comments, advice or input when people share with me. I'm being nurtured (through an amazing leadership course) to be a much better listener.

Find something you can do for YOU while laughing at the same time. I see these commercials and find how easy it is to laugh but get a great message.

Let me know how your doing!! You can do ANYTHING for 40 days.

Love, Jen

Tuesday

Elite Alpine Skier at 130 mph


Olympics - summer or winter, I love watching them. The camaraderie, talent and ambition to go for the gold always inspires me. I am even more excited for the Paralympics, for obvious reasons, but how often do you get to experience inspiration at their level.

Looking at this photo what do you see? Great smile, happy dog, warm landscaping, etc. Do you see anything missing?

Marty Mayberry is a 24 year old Aussie who lost both of his legs at 16 due to menengitis. He is now the ONLY ELITE alpine skier that is a double BK (below-knee) amputee.

Great skill and fitness plus state-of-the-art prosthetics enable him to zoom downhill at 130km/h, and his prosthetist will be in the Canadian ski resort of Whistler to cheer him on at the Winter Paralympics next month.

I am looking into a ski trip and can't wait to see how I do. It's guys like this that give a whole new meaning to "things aren't always as they seem."

Look for the Paralympics March 12 - 21st in Vancouver.


Thursday

Question of the Week

Check out the new poll on the right side of the blog. I'm going to pick your brain once a week-ish with a new thought or idea. Participate as much as you like. I'm really quite a curious cat. :)

Peace,
Jen

Monday

Umami

Anyone who knows me knows how much my stomach & food are the best of friends.

So, as friends take care of friends, I help my stomach by looking at new places to patron or recipes to try.

While I don't live in Cali, I recently stumbled upon good food, good knowledge & a whole new vocab! Welcome to Umami Burger! What is this you ask? It's a yummy looking hamburger-veggie burger restaurant. Check out the eats.

Ok, so it's food. No big deal. But wait. I kept asking "what is Umami?" For those who already know (and I can guess a few) here goes my explanation. Umami is the 5th taste! There are the basics tastes: sweet, sour, bitter, salty. For that extra taste we enter "savory" or umami.

"A comparison of umami ingredients from the East and the West: umami is actually used in various forms all over the world. In Asia, umami is mainly found in beans and grain, fermented seafood-based products, shiitake mushrooms, kombu and dried seafood. In Western cuisine, there are also fermented or cured products derived from meat and dairy products, namely ham and cheese. The most well-known ingredient is the tomato."

Here is my thinking: go beyond the food. If a current life scenario, shortcoming, disappointment or emotion can't be checked off on a box or attached to a label, then create your 5th taste. Life is not always as we wish or want it to be but don't stop if you don't have a box to put it in. Create something new, learn from it and go with it.

Most of our blocks or speed bumps are designed to bring out our inner strengths not to create frustration. Enjoy your 5th taste and take from it what you can.

Peace,
Jen


The Best Little Project

I'm definitely into being happy and even more into cool projects. So, as I'm playing with my e-reader I find this great gem: The Happiness Project.

The author, Gretchen Ruben, says this is an approach to changing your life. She did a different thing every month and documented what she was trying, what she learned & even started Happiness Project Toolbox website!

She writes like she is talking directly to me (or you, in your case ) while putting me into thinking mode. She is very clever.

Trying new things in my life is an on going thing so why not meet new people, have new stories and experiences to share. All while creating your own project.

Be more polite, try a new approach on a co-worker, say Thank You more, sleep more, drink more water, etc.

The point: just enjoy and try :)

Love,
Jen

Haiti Amputees


I found this article in the New York Times and it has touched my heart! Help find an alternative solution--even if it means just thinking about it.

Published: January 24, 2010

PORT-AU-PRINCE, Haiti — In a tent serving as an acute-care ward on the grounds of this city’s biggest hospital, Jocelin François was sitting up in bed when a nurse went by, barking at him in French. Mr. François, whose left leg was amputated nearly to his knee after the earthquake on Jan. 12, threw out his arms and fell back on the mattress.

“She said I have to go home,” Mr. François, 26, said. “I don’t want to leave until I can walk. I am weak. I have no place to go.”

A doctor, sensing some confusion, intervened. “We’re not telling him he has to go home,” the doctor, Rose Antoine, 33, a native of Haiti who now lives in Pennsylvania, explained. “We’re only telling him that this is an acute ward and we need the bed. We’re trying to find a step-down unit where he can go to.”

Nearly two weeks after the 7.0-magnitude earthquake that devastated Port-au-Prince, the immediate health crisis, which involved treating the injuries of people who were crushed by collapsing buildings and amputating damaged limbs, has begun to settle into a new phase.

This one is perhaps even more daunting: caring for thousands of post-operation trauma patients who are ready to leave the hospitals, but lack homes or families to go to. Many will require prosthetic limbs, frequent wound cleanings, bandage changes and months of rehabilitation.

As officials warn of possible outbreaks of infectious diseases from unsanitary conditions in hundreds of makeshift camps of people made homeless by the earthquake, they are also wondering where to send patients who have been treated for their injuries but require follow-up care.

“It’s very hard to send people home when they don’t have a house,” said Dr. Surena Claude, who is coordinating a commission appointed by President René Préval to respond to the health emergency. “This situation is causing so many problems, because the hospitals are full, and if this continues we will have no room.”

Early reports that there might be as many as 200,000 people who required amputations appear to have been exaggerated. At the University Hospital, Port-au-Prince’s largest hospital, which received the brunt of the casualties after the quake, surgeons have performed about 225 amputations, mostly in the first few days. Doctors Without Borders estimated that its doctors had performed 125 amputations in 12 centers across the country. Hundreds more have been done in other clinics and hospitals elsewhere; the total is more likely to have been a few thousand.

Still, this is a country that, even before the earthquake created so much devastation, could barely cope with the healthy. There will be thousands more who will need rehabilitation for a range of injuries, from broken hips and femurs to neurological disorders from head injuries.

Health officials are still in the earliest stages of determining how to deal with post-operative patients, even as new patients are coming to the hospitals with secondary infections as well as the usual array of emergencies.

Dr. Mirta Roses, director of the World Health Organization’s Pan-American region, said Sunday that all of the country’s remaining 48 hospitals were at full capacity, including 11 in Port-au-Prince. That does not include the many clinics that aid groups have created.

Health officials are dealing with another problem. With aftershocks still rattling the city, including another on Sunday, many people are afraid to be inside the hospitals but are also unwilling to leave the grounds, where they can get food and water and have access to care.

“Even their relatives want to be with them in the hospitals,” Dr. Roses said. She added that a solution would involve creating centers for ambulatory and post-operative care and persuading patients and their families to move there.

Even in the best of circumstances, it can take four to six months for a person who has had a traumatic amputation to function again, Dr. Steven R. Flanagan, medical director of the Rusk Institute of Rehabilitation Medicine at N.Y.U. Langone Medical Center, said in a telephone interview. The Rusk Institute has a team in Haiti.

“What they really need to worry about in Haiti is infectious complication, so if you have an amputation of a leg or arm, that wound is subject to infection,” Dr. Flanagan said. “And clearly they don’t have all the medicines they need down there.”

Dr. Claude, of the presidential commission, said the government was well aware of the situation.

“Unfortunately, a solution is not yet found,” he said. Even when one is found, he said, logistics in this rubble-choked country will continue to be a problem.

The hope is that access to medicines and care will be eased greatly when the government carries out plans to build giant tent cities across Port-au-Prince and the vicinity, but that could take weeks.

At University Hospital, which is next to a nursing school that collapsed, killing about 50 students, Mr. François was relieved to learn that he did not have to leave immediately. He said he did not know if his relatives died in the earthquake, and that they did not know that he survived.

Outside the tent, a giant post-operative ward has been created in a grove of mango and oak trees, with low-slung tarps strung over patients’ beds. The ward, known as “the forest,” is filled with many patients who did not want to be inside the hospital. The doctors do not know how many patients are there, because they have been too busy to count.

In the United States, many of these patients would already be home, receiving outpatient care, said Dr. Michael Marin, chairman of surgery at Mount Sinai Hospital in New York, who is volunteering here with the International Medical Corps, the group coordinating relief efforts at the hospital.

Here, many of the patients cannot return home. “The only place they have to go is the forest,” Dr. Marin said.

Wednesday

Snow Boarder..Without Legs!! Check this Out



Ok, So I realize I just posted but couldn't resist sharing this inspiration with you.

I stumbled on to a person by the name of AMY PURDY. Heard of her? If not, you won't forget her after reading this.

She lost her legs at 19 due to a freaky septic/blood situation eerily similar to my experience except she had bacterial meningitis. She has turned her life into a very active snowboarding, acting, modeling & speaking world. She even went to South Africa & helped in a Shoe Drop for TOMS Shoes -- can't get a much more satisfying experience than that.

Please go to her website and turn your day around! http://www.amypurdy.com/amys-story

KEEP IT UP AMY!!

Tuesday

Empire State of Mind


I'm looking at 70 degree weather today and I can't tell you how much I get inspired when the sun is out! I'm not expecting this to last long so I'm trying to get the most out of it :)

Have you ever really listened to song lyrics? I do, but sometimes words hit me in a way that just pushes me to another place. Here are a few lyrics that should get you movin'

"New York, concrete jungle where dreams are made of
There's nothin' you can't do
Now you're in New York
These streets will make you feel brand new
Big lights will inspire you
Let's hear it for New York, New York,
New York"

If if a city, task, person, etc. seems unattainable don't let it stop you. Let the big lights, dreams and inspiration of the idea push you to the attainable!

Enjoy the day!
~Jen

Thursday


For those who can't read this photo...it says:
"I was born without a bone below the knees
I only stand 5 ft 2
But this is the body I have been given;
This is my weapon;
How I conquer, How I wage my war;
This is how I have broken the world record 49 times
How I became the FASTEST thing on no legs;
This is my weapon.....This is how I fight"

I have read this so many times & still find strength from it.

Oscar Pistorius is the 23 yr. old South African paralympic runner known as the "Blade Runner".
I think I have mentioned him before but he really became important to me while I was in the hospital. I was watching the news with my PT one day and the entire newscast was about Oscar and whether or not his legs were providing him an unfair advantage over able-bodied runners. I became hooked on the whole idea of that debate. The rulings on this went back & forth & created a great deal of attention.

I spoke for a business group this week & caught myself thinking of this debate while talking with them. If someone who has a difference can manage and function in a setting with those who do not have a difference...then, that becomes a difference in of itself. Sometimes people just aren't sure what to do. Are you challenged or not? MMM...

I truly believe that we attract what we give out. If we portray ourselves as different, challenged, not worthy, etc. then others will perceive that and we will attract those ideas. I look at Oscar and, even though he was born this way, he doesn't understand the idea of not being on the same level as able-bodied people and this is the mentality we should all strive for.

And don't forget...Per author Malcolm Gladwell...it takes 10,000 hours to be an expert at anything! Keep striving.

I'm looking forward to new challenges and achievements this year! I went to Austin last week and saw new challenges everywhere :-) Shopping, eating & walking all over the capital.!




Tuesday

Happy Thoughts for 2010

Happy New Year! I can't believe how fast this year has gone by. I had a great New Year's Eve with great company & a fantastic Hibachi chef! We came home and tried to recreate some of their ridiculous tricks.

Uh, ya, not exactly the same. Anyway, this photo was recently sent to me and it took me back to a few memories of 2009.

It was taken at the lake this past summer with many friends & family. I was wanting to ski and jump in and out of the water with such ease.

Instead, I rode the jet ski (seated) then, like a twisted pretzel, got thrown from from every angle on a tube. I laughed and laughed and laughed. The tube was so hard to hang on and once I get the giggles--it's all over.

I love being in the middle of laughs, good stories & water. You can never can go wrong with that combination. But in the moment this was taken, for a split second, I was thinking about being able to stand on skiis and feel the movement like I used to. Watching everyone got me thinking. Then, I was able to remember just why I'm not standing.

When everyone else is managing all the heavy lifting of the skiis, boat cleaning and so on. I tend to have the jobs of making sure other things are taken care of and I get to learn something new about myself everyday. Sure, we all have dreams and it's healthy to have a desire to want. It's not healthy to get stuck in the want.

When the day was over, I had a great tan, good memories and stories to share. I'm taking my new life (almost 3 years now) and helping others who may not be able to ski. :) And the more I think about it, why ski when you can drive the boat? Get in control of you and watch the skiers follow. :)

Love,
Jen