An Owl, Seriously?

So, I was walking out of Kinko's with a friend of mine when she says "Jen, watch out!" I look up and hit my head on an owl that was hanging from the overhead of the building. We laughed so hard, you kinda had to be there. :)

But, what on earth is the purpose of this thing? It is definitely not "art", not a bird feeder, it doesn't talk or greet you, nothing! My advice? Next time you are at Kinko's, always watch your step and wear a helmet!

Super Tuesday & Sweetest Hands

It's about 9:30 and I'm trying to fall asleep but seem to be addicted to reading about politics. I have found some great podcasts with great material. When you start debating out loud to your computer, it's time to take a breath, close the computer down, and try starting over. Things like that can get you called "Britney".

Anyway, this year's candidates are very interesting and, wow, look how far we have come on so many levels. I'm not going to endorse a candidate on the blog but, I have noticed that if you really believe, change can occur.

In my daily life I have the option to believe or not to believe that change, growth, patience, and strength can occur. But, if we never try, or go that extra mile, or take that extra step, or push ourselves, then its up to us to take responsibility for what we don't do. We can't expect others to change things that we can't even change ourselves.

However, we can look to others to give us hope. I was asked to go with Marcella to a doctor appointment yesterday as she was getting new prosthetics. She is so precious and always with a smile. She put them on and couldn't balance very well, she is only 5.

The sweetest thing occurred. She put her palm on mine and we walked together. It was such a touching moment in my day. She was walking but is going to need a lot of practice. Before I left, she gives me the best hug and then starts laughing, ha! It just warmed my heart. If she only knew the strength she had.

Having something or someone to believe in can give a person a sense of realness. It's all about building each other up as humans and giving each other the support to feel that we can run for president—if that's your thing.

On a lighter note, my hands are healing but doing well. I tried to color my hair—uh, well, scary. Don't think I'll be doing that again. Let's just say the reddish/blonde thing is not my look. I'll be getting that fixed as soon as possible. :) I am reading more and more and am hoping to get back to work in the near future!

I have so much more to share but I'm finally getting tired. I'll write in a few days!

Love,

Jen

Butter Phones, Lunch with Friends and HBO's "Flight of the Conchords"

First, to the Doc that put the beautiful comment on the previous post, thank you . That was very hart warming and appreciated so much more than you know. Thank you for saving me and helping me to be here today!

Just a really quick update about a few funny things. Well, I started off my day with the phone ringing so I picked it up and said "Hello?", as you would. :) Then, the phone slides off my shoulder, hits the floor, and the battery falls out and the conversation was uh, well—over. So, I took a deep breath and said to the phone "well, thanks for calling and better luck next time."

Anyway, then my day progresses by watching the best show ever. I watch it often but today was so great. Have you ever watched Flight of the Conchords? It's a very different sort of humor but makes everyday life so comical. I'll leave it up to you to find this little jewel but having cable will help you out.



My next step was lunch—tried a great place but the wait was 45 minutes, so my friends and I go to another place that was soo good. Nothing really funny in this one just wanted to mention that lunch with friends is always needed—make time for yourself to get connected or re-connected!

As my day progresses, I am asked to cross my fingers, to which I responded "you cross your fingers and I'll cross my elbows", and then I was asked to play rock, paper, scissors (remember that game). Clearly, the only one I could do was the rock—very unfair. So, I chose play the game verbally and it still made me loose.

Well, I ended my night with a great call from my two brothers, one of which fell on snow and ice yesterday and busted his lip and messed up his teeth. He is ok but in some pain. I think my family is just prone to falling. Did I ever tell you how my mom & dad met? Well, lets just say that there were a lot of books and stairs involved. :)

I just wanted to check in today and say hi. And, about that photo above? Dad's 60th, pretty happy dad, myself, and little Matthew. The blue around my neck—little party decor'. Check out the new photo to the right of Nick & Matthew—they have matching glasses!

If you only do one thing today, make sure you laugh!

Goodnight,

Jen

Young Marcella, My Biggest Fear and a Prosthetics Update

Bonjour! So, this update is well overdo but my little "assistant" idea didn't really go as planned. However, my hubby did step in—what a good guy.

For starters, my hands are doing a bit better but sill pretty tender. We ended up working on both hands but the bulk of the work was on my right. This was considered a "reconstruction" surgery for prosthetic fitting. If your curious as to what my hands will look like you can check out silicon hands on the web. I don't have a great photo as of yet or I would share with you.

It's all about change update—I am up to $88 in savings with my change. I can't wait to make my first donation. I had several recommendations to read the book Christmas Jars as it is about a similar concept. Very good read and I just found out that it is being made into a movie in 2008.

As Nick shared below, I have had a great opportunity to meet a wonderful 5 year old, Marcella, who lost both of her hands & feet due to a staph infection which turned into meningitis. When we met, she looked at my hands, then hers, but never asked me any questions. We played catch for quite a while—I wish the Yankees could have seen us. :)

She doesn't know she is any different and her spirit was amazing. I have been asked to go with her on her next doctor appointment and hopefully start to educate and get her to the best care possible. I feel really blessed to be doing this.

My biggest fear was somewhat conquered this past week. I received a call from a company after the Dallas Morning News article ran, asking if I would mind sharing my story with the sales team. I thought about it for a day or so and then just said 'yes'. For some of you, this is probably no big deal. However, let me give you a little history on my speaking apprehensions.

When I was in high school and college, speaking was a requirement. I never did understand this—why torture people? Both times, I took it my senior year with all the freshman—how uncool. They all thought I had flunked and had to retake it. Then, to add to an already bad situation, I would ask the teachers if I could give my speeches to them privately.

I would get an answer like "uh, doesn't that defeat the purpose?" to which I would reply "what exactly is the purpose of being so nervous that you can't talk, upset stomachs and a bad grade?" Somehow I ended doing about 50% to the class and about 50% to the teacher. The art of negotiation is beautiful.

So, how did it go last week? Great! I had such a good time. I think once you get started it becomes easier but I just always had the problem of getting started. Anyway, thank you so very much for wanting to hear my story and for giving me the tools to make my first time easier than my college days.

Swimming—still loving this. But, my hand can't get the chlorine so I'm on hold for a while. Pilates—Donna & I are getting ready for the seminar/workshop February 8-10. There are still spots available. Just go to Traditional Pilates: The Essence of Joe. It's going to be fun!

Human connection—Just wanted to share a quick story. I was out yesterday and went into a store where the sales lady starts spending time with me. After about thirty minutes she says to me "young lady, how did you hurt yourself?" It was a really sweet way of asking me what had happened. When I explained it to her she shared with me how she had lost her husband a few months ago.

I really felt for her because you could tell how much of a connection she had with him. I have the opportunity to engage in these type of conversations more & more now and it just seems to enrich my life everyday to know that I am learning the core of who people are.

I have had a few relationships that were surface or superficial that weren't very challenging. These intimate conversations are really what life is about—the real human connection. I guess I have changed, in more ways than one, but I hope this can become contagious.

Have a great rest of the weekend. I have more coming!

Amour,

Jen

Jen Has Been Incredible

For those of you who are wondering why it has been so long since I have posted. It is primarily because the blog to me was not only a way of communicating to family and friends but it also was a tool to let Jen know how I was feeling during those first few months of this ordeal.

I knew reading all the wonderful words of encouragement from around the world would have an enormous effect on her in the weeks and months that followed. Thanks to Steve and Cynthia for getting this started.

The time that everyone had taken to put their thoughts and prayers on this blog I believe helped in building such a wonderful foundation for what has been a journey that I can not begin to explain in a few short paragraphs. My wife has truly been amazing and I feel it an honor to witness her strength every day.

She continues to amaze me with the pace at which she travels and how quickly life has gotten back to almost normal. I find it very hard to keep up with her and continually I find myself asking her to slow down.

Her surgery last week was very successful and although she is feeling soreness in her hands she has still found time to be busier than ever. Saturday she spent organizing her dad's surprise 60th birthday in which everyone had a wonderful time. Yesterday she spent the afternoon visiting with a young girl of 5 who had suffered a similar ordeal to Jen.

This little girl had lost several fingers from both hands and one leg above the knee and another below the knee. When this girl's mother had read about Jen in the Dallas Morning News she contacted Jen and asked if she would mind visiting with her daughter. Jen last night was amazed at how well this little girl had adapted and pledged to help any way she can.

Tomorrow Jen will face one of her biggest fears—public speaking. She has been asked to speak to a group of sales professionals and give her insights into dealing with challenges. She is well prepared and I know she will be fine. Once again I am proud of her for facing her challenges head on.

I can't thank everyone enough for their roll in the wonderful recovery of my wife. I look into her eyes every day and am thankful for where we are today.

I love you babe!
Hubby