So, how was my weekend? Well, in addition to watching the Olympics and the best mens' swimming relay ever (go USA!),...going to an airplane museum and being envious of my little brother's trip to Japan for two weeks, I spent time with my new 10 friends. ;) After waiting for such a long time, I finally received my hands! Amazing how real they look and feel.
I can actually swim with them, wear my wedding ring, grab the car steering wheel and most of all use the jewelry that has been waiting on the back burner.
Its a strange feeling to have something so normal feel so weird. I had to get used to having length again and having the ability to scratch my head, hold my purse, etc. I realized just how much I have learned to do without them. It really makes you realize what you can adapt to when the situation presents itself.
Its the next phase. But, I have a challenge for you. Because I now have what I thought I could not live without but realize that I have adapted without, take something away for two weeks and see how you feel.
Rather than drive a car, just walk, take the train, or carpool and meet some new people along the way. Don't eat out and learn how to cook. Take away or reduce TV and spend more time with the family or read more books. Whatever it is, take it away for a while and I promise, you will adapt.
The fun part is finding how you compensate, how creative you become or new things you discover. Then ask yourself: do I really have to have it?
There is always a piece of yourself that gets discovered through circumstance. See what you can do and become.
Wishing you the best,
Jen
Jen

6 comments:
Your hands are beautiful. I am sure you're so happy to be wearing your wedding ring again.
You never cease to amaze. Thanks for sharing your story.
Wow!!! How amazing, your hands are beautiful. You must be so excited. You are an incredible inspiration and I'm sure you are looking forward to little sky as a new part of the family.
Congratulations Jen, you are amazing!!!
God bless
Eric and Wendy Dunn
WOW! Your hands do look great! I am so glad to hear that you are doing so well. I had not checked your blog in a week and was so excited to read this news and the news about your service dog.
Your are such a beautiful person, Jen.
Everytime I see your new hands I get so emotional thinking about your journey. I can't believe it is was a year ago we were in OKC looking at the hands you would someday have and here you are!!!!!!!!!! You mean the world to me! Love you and can't wait to see you again. Shannon
P.S. Can't wait to meet Sky - he is beautiful!
Both you and your hands are absolutely amazing and beautiful! I am so excited for you. I look forward to all of your awesome inspiring words in the future!
Take care!
Michelle
Jenny:
Your hands are beautiful and your remarks about being able to adapt are so on point! Very thought-provoking and moving. You continue to be able to provide such great life-insights for all, drawing upon your unique experiences.
Thank you.
Love,
Steve
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